Tuesday, September 12, 2017

Florida Vibes

When Jonathan left for Angola this time around, Forest and I hit the road the same morning to head to Pensacola, FL for some time with my family.
10 hours solo driving with a 3 year old. Piece of cake (as long as he has the ipad and chocolate milk.)

 Turned out there was going to be some overlap with both my sister and my brother visiting my parents, so we figured we'd join the party too! And then when people heard we would all be there, extended family like my grandpa, two aunts and a cousin also headed to Florida so it ended up being quite the affair. 

With Jonathan's schedule, I've noticed that Forest transitions better if we travel right before or right after Jonathan leaves. Something about getting him out of a routine makes him less likely to have behavioral issues due to daddy leaving. I guess it just takes the focus off of it happening for both of us. 


Anyhoos, we had a great time in Florida and I loved getting to see Forest bond with his cousins. 




My sister's son Andrew is the closest cousin in age to Forest (4 weeks apart) and they definitely bonded.  We call them the twins. They played like best friends and fought like brothers. 







Within a few hours, Forest had shed all of his shy tendencies and jumped right in with my sister's gaggle of boys and he had such a blast. 



It was nice for me not to have to entertain him for once! Other than refereeing occasionally, I mostly just got to sit back and watch them play. It was the first time I thought: hmmmm....maybe having two kids is easier than having one in some ways. Especially two the same age!





Also, with Forest solidly knowing how to swim and with his newfound maturity (in which by some miracle he actually obeys me sometimes), this was the most relaxing trip to the beach I've had since birthing him. Usually he's basically on suicide watch as he takes every moment of my distraction to try to sprint into the ocean waves. We also saw a shark (one of 2 shark sightings during the week) from the beach which helped to curb his fearlessness of darting into the surf. 






It was a great trip and we can't wait to go back, but next time, I think we'll fly.

Saturday, September 9, 2017

Hurricane Harvey Hits Houston



First let me start off by saying that our house north of Houston was spared any flooding during Hurricane Harvey. We have others in our community who were not so lucky. Even for us ‘survivors’, it was  life changing event and I’ll not soon forget the anxiety, helplessness, loneliness, and anguish  I felt as the rain trapped us in our home while we restlessly watched our city and our region disappear under water. 







We were lucky. Because of the elevation of our house, I never worried much about a major flooding incident. While I was briefly worried we may be asked to evacuate, putting ourselves in a risky situation on the roads, the worst I actually faced was entertaining a stir crazy 3 year old for days on end.
Lots of coloring....

playing with kinetic sand...

playing in the rain...

making our own play doh...

setting up an art studio in the garage..

more rain playing...

fort building...

name writing...

stick figure drawing...

and of course, train track building.
We had plenty of netflix marathons, but even my TV obsessed tot was bored of it after the second day. Also, setting up a make-shift storm shelter in the bathroom for the frequent tornadic activity was zero fun.

But alls well that ends well and we are ok! What we are concerned for now are our fellow Texans who have suffered the loss of their homes and their possessions, and who have experience horrific trauma escaping the flood waters. The past week a been a frenzy of ‘what can I do?’. Trying to volunteer is like waiting to buy Garth Brooks tickets the second they  go on sale. All the slots are filled before you can reply: ME! ME! I’LL DO IT! 

It’s been a beautiful thing to witness the coming together of our community. You’ll be hard pressed to find more diverse town than Houston, and though the media would have us believe we are irrevocably different and divided, the last 2 weeks have shown that we are not. That the majority of us value every life, no matter the age, color, income, language, religion or political affiliation that labels it. 

I also feel like this tragedy has unearthed that thing. That God thing. That ‘made in His image’thing that keeps us up at night weeping for strangers and brainstorming ideas to ease their suffering. My prayer is for relief and recovery and for sustained compassion. That Harvey and Houston aren’t forgotten with the landfall of Irma, but that we persist in the months to come with the same urgency to help and comfort we have all experienced these last few weeks. 

I already feel the adrenaline dissipating. Today was the first day that felt normal. I went to Target and almost forgot to check the ‘donations needed’ list at our church. But I don’t want to feel normal. I want to wake up every morning asking  the Lord ‘How can I be your hands and feet today?’. 

So much of my ministering comes in the form of raising a little one these days. It’s easy to say ‘my plate is full already’ and also easy to take on so much that my role as a mother and a wife gets compromised. I am looking for that perfect balance. As Forest gets older and easier and it looks like he’ll remain an only child, I’m definitely feeling that I might finally have a little extra time and energy to spare, and I’m keeping my heart and spirit open for opportunities to serve. If you want to help support the relief efforts here in Texas, here are some great stewards for your donations: 


Some local churches and organizations in our area who are doing a great job in organizing funds, resources and manpower for those whose homes flooded:


If you'd rather donate goods than money, here are some Amazon wishlists both for the demo of flooded houses and for schools and families who lost everything and are needing their basic necessities replenished: 

 

Tuesday, September 5, 2017

First Day of Preschool!

Forest started a new year of preschool today, which hopefully means more time for blogging on my part! I have lots of thoughts on Harvey and also want to write about our most recent trip to Florida so fingers crossed, I will find some time to document those soon. 


As for preschool, I was a tad nervous since we decided to switch Forest to a new school this year. His last school was fantastic but enormous. Our little guy is quite shy (major understatement) so we felt like a smaller school might be a better fit for him. Well, his first day couldn't have gone better! He was excited to go and left me happily with a hug and a kiss. He even cooperated with a back to school photo session!




The first day was only about an hour as part of their 'gradual entry' start and he came out dirty and smiling and saying he was ready to go back tomorrow. But this time he wants to go back for 5 hours! He said his teachers are sweet and all the kids are nice and he had fun playing on the playground and with all the trains, trucks, and cars in the classroom. 





They have a little one-way window into the classroom from the hallway so I got to spy on him a bit. It made my heart happy to see him playing right in the midst of kids his age. He's really starting to thrive socially which is a huge development over the past few months. I'm praying this year is full of new friendships for him! 

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